- by Gitabushi
I consider myself a philosopher. Meaning, somewhere along the line, I realized that I was making my way through life (interacting with others in the world) according to a paradigm, and if I was unhappy with the results, I needed to improve my paradigm.
So I’ve done that many times in my life. And I’m pretty happy.
This sort of came up in a conversation this morning, and I was reminded of a book I received from my best friend’s Mom for Junior High graduation: The University of Hard Knocks.
I read the book, and thought the lessons were a little too obvious to write a book about. And yet, I found myself thinking back to it in my early 20s, and remembering its lessons more and more. I think this is partially where I got the idea of swapping out paradigms. It taught me about the occasional need to change the way I think about things.
But there was another book that helped me to understand and improve how I think: The Depression Book. I don’t care if your depression is diagnosed as chemical, you still need to read this book to help conquer your depression…because anti-depressants eventually stop working, but if you can use the respite they provide to reprogram how you think, you might be able to improve your brain chemistry by establishing a different internal dialogue.
But now I think it might be worthwhile for everyone to read it. Mostly because everyone gets depressed at times, and this book can help you to minimize both those moments, and the damage of those moments. The book was really helpful to me in understanding how to change the way I think about things.
So now I’m thinking about other helpful books that are Must Reads for increasing your chance to have a successful and happy life.
I’ve heard great recommendations for Rich Dad, Poor Dad. I’ve never read it, but the things people say about it make me think I discovered many of the same lessons on my own from other sources. Let’s add it to the Must Read list.
I’m going to put in a conditional recommendation for Charles Givens’ “Wealth Without Risk.” I own it. I’ve never read entirely through it. I found a few ideas in it that I like…I guess the best thing that I can say about it is it definitely contributed to my understanding of how money works, and how we earn money through smart decisions.
I’m not sure how mandatory it is to having a good life, but I’d like to make a recommendation for James Q. Wilson’s Bureaucracy. I mean, most people end up working in a bureaucracy, and most certainly end up at the mercy of one at some point. It seems like it might be helpful to know what you are up against. Or what policies to push your politicians to vote for in light of how bureaucracies work. Or don’t work. Or barely work.
I can’t really think of any other book that provided me useful knowledge I didn’t already pick up from school, life, job training, etc., but there might be some I’m not remembering.
What books do you recommend for a happy, successful life?